That was good enough for me! I'm glad you shared. :)

Mich interessieren solche antworten auch immer grundsätzlich und ich find es interessant, fülle es aber aus dem gleichen Grund nicht aus wie du. Eine Frage hätte ich aber noch, was ist deine Schuhgröße? :D Frag nciht sag es mir einfach

Actually your non-meme was as informative as some other memes. I think the whole point is to not take it very seriously.

Low self esteem seems to be pretty common for artists. I always think artists are too hard on themselves. Just like people who are antisocial maybe just haven't met/talked to the right people yet :-)

Anyhow, thanks for writing and thanks for continuing to share your art. Over here.

I can't fill that meme because... you know xD
Also all what I can say about you - you are super-friendly person to us, so calmly and smart :> Thanks for info anyway!

Far better than any meme. And to be honest it's done the opposite of being 'not-so-inviting' to me, as I struggle with the same sorta problems. That said I'm normally too shy to comment, especially to an artist I admire.. I've got no self esteem, not many friends, I'm terrible at keeping contact going, quiet natured and use movies and such to retreat away from reality. So I can relate. Just know that even though I don't know you personally and I've never commented before, I'll always be a fan of your work and wishing you the best~

Just means that people have to work a little harder to break into yer world, but it's worth the effort xD

Do you have a particular comic you like to read?

except some people who don't mind me being "away" for months and not writing anything. All the love to those people <3)

I certainly never minded. But then again I am someone who was "away" for over a year.

You know, it is all can be said about me also. I have a feeling I read about myself. Especially about the reality -___- also hate it.
I found it very hard to start sharing my art because of low self-esteem. So it was sort of a feat for me, when I shared my first drawing.

Oh, gosh, I don't think you're uninteresting at all! I never have. I understand completely if you don't want to fill out the meme, but I absolutely would have read it if you had. :3

Texten sind schöner als abgearbeitete Fragen =)
Und alle Liebe der Welt zu denjenigen, die hups-ich-bin-für-Monate-verschwunden-Leute aushalten. <3

I won't judge anything about this. And I'll still talk to you.

I still love you Ro. And I'm sorry about when we had the fight coz we both thought the other person didn't like each other :s Now I understand and I'm happy with it <3 I just want you happy

For what it's worth, from what you show of yourself through your artwork you've always struck me as a really neat person with a lot of creativity and warmth. :)

Awww, it's still nice to see some info about you. I'm glad you shared what you did. :) Yeah, reality is kinda meh most of the time, though part of that problem is a very human tendency to be obsessed about the past or the future - we often ignore the charms of the present. You are what you make yourself, and if you can be awesome and whatever you like in your thoughts, then (apart from physically shape-shifting) you can still be that in reality too. Just don't break any laws. XD

Ich glaube du brauchst dir keine Sorgen machen, weil Vielen gehts auch so (zumindest ist es genau so bei mir und May). Ich fühl mich immer schlecht, weil ich nur sehr selten online bin um mit Leuten zu reden. Ich halts einfach nicht aus auf Dauer in "Sozialmodus" zu bleiben, weil oft raubt mir das die Zeit und Nerven in Ruhe zu malen. Es ändert aber nichts daran, dass ich dennoch meine Freunde liebe, vor allem die, die es verstehen, dass ich oft distanziert bin. Meine Eltern finden es oft komisch, dass ich stundenlang ohne Probleme oder sozialer Interaktion im Zimmer sitzen kann und mich alleine beschäftigen lol. Das war schon immer so, selbst bevor ich Computer und Internet hatte. Einfach da sitzen und malen. XD

I think there are probably a lot of people out there with low self-esteem, but I guess it's okay. Also it's quite nice to know that there are others who just didn't need to talk about everything everyday and every hour. I know that some of my Skype-contacts deleted me because I wasn't talking to them x'D (Also because I didn't know what to say in the first place, except for "Hi, how's the weather?". If I don't feel the need to talk to someone then there's nothing important to say o,o
As long as you're kind of happy with who you are it's perfect ^^ (though not sure if anybody out there is truly happy but at least we can try to be ^^) Therefore...huzzah for more people who don't need contact to others 24/7

You are never not interesting to me and I enjoyed the read<3 And special people deserve special treatment , no? I happily waited months not hearing from each other, just to have awesome fun and talks the time we both are around- its all worth it just for that- because its natural, and does not feel awkward at all when we meet up even after long time of silence~ Also how could i ever frown on the one person who gave me the strength and care I needed when I started out with shy and clumsy drawing attempts 3 years ago? If not for you, I maybe would be somewhere else with some stuff I did and I am thankful that we were able to meet up and do some of the things we do together ~

Stay awesome, because in fact you are <3

"But never the less i'm nice and polite when i talk, which is why most don't understand why i suddenly disappear and not talk to them again"
Same problem here...
Reading this was great to know you better, I hope you can get your self esteem up soon!
And kudos to Wolfy-nail for beign able to break that shell, I know how hard it is as my boyfriend had to do the same with me.
You´re a wonderful person, you know? Don´t let anyone tell you otherwise (even if it´s yourself)

What was the last non-fiction book that you read? I tend to go for history so the last one I read was Dachau 29 April 1945: The Rainbow Liberation Memoirs by Sam Dann

You may not think much of yourself, but I think you're pretty cool.

You're luck, you know Chiral IRL... that's one of my life goals, he's a great man I would love to meet face to beard!
abut I digress... Been wondering, why a fly?

I know how you feel. People probably say that a lot and don't really get it, but I think I do. I don't have many friends either, not because I don't want them.. but because I can't get along for long periods of time. I'm very.. difficult to bond with for most because they simply don't have the patience nor understanding. I'm not high maintenance and sometimes I just want to be on my own doing my own thing which tags me as an antisocial loner a lot of the time. However, like you, I have those few friends who don't get hissy with me when I take time away and just vanish for a bit. Love'em too. They're the stuff real friends are made of who don't expect to be entertained all the time and just enjoy knowing they have a bond that's there even when there's periods of silence.

That whole 'you can't get along with people for long periods of time' really makes me feel good to read cause now I'm not the only one. So I just wanted to say thank you for being brave enough to say that <3

It's fine if you don't want to do the meme. I think you're pretty interesting and your art stlye is lovely ~ uvu From all these comments you have a bunch of people supporting you~!

I am similar in a lot of ways. :x I just create personas that I can be online in order to break out of my shell. Haven't actually done anything with it in a while...

"...so i can live in a non-real-world inside my head were can be whatever I want to be." This. <3 I'm not sure how I've managed to make the amazing friends I have, being so reclusive and anxiety-ridden. I live completely in my own world, I'd spiral without it.

I just love you, girl, you know ^^

very beutiful text I must say.
ghehe sounds a bit like all mine contact with friends too ghehe..

just stay yourself :3

smooches big moth smooch ;)

I wouldn't say the low self esteem factor is limited to just artists, It would be more akin to those in creative capacities. I'm a self made inventor/engineer. I have several products I've developed, inventions, one off designs and productions. People tell me all the time that the stuff I make/design is amazing and fantastic - all I can see is the mistakes. It can be exceptionally paralyzing trying to start new ideas when all I can see is the mistakes and inefficiencies before I even begin.

I also considered writing up a thing, but I kind of thought, why bother. But I like your take, I might have to do similar. :}

Geez where we twins in another life? XD

I think your art is lovely and your personality seems lovely too :3 And I think having only one or two people who can "break your shell" and be very close and dear to you is more important than having a million friends who you don't really know and don't feel close to ^^ I mean having a lot of friends is nice, but it's not very..."satisfying" when you feel like you have all these friends but nobody to really "talk" to.

Über dieses " du musst dich immer melden" ist mir letztes Jahr eine Freundschaft zerbrochen. Das hat sehr weh getan und ich habe nun auch immer Angst das es nochmal passiert. Aber der rest meiner Freunde scheint kein Problem damit zuhaben. Als ich diese fragte meinten sie zu mir: "Wenn man mit jemandem befreundet sein will, muss man akzeptieren wie er ist und welche Leidenschaften er hat. Das heißt ja nicht, das derjenige nicht an einen denkt, es geht ihm nur vielleicht schlecht oder er hat viel zu tun. Wenn man sich das nächste Mal sieht und alles ist so cool wie sonst, dann ist es Freundschaft" Ich habe Freunde dir mir unglaublich Nahe stehen. Ich aber nur einmal im Jahr sehe, trotzdem - wenn wir uns sehen ist diese Freundschaft und Liebe da als wäre nie Zeit vergangen. Und sowas kann über Jahre wachsen und immer schöner werden. Mach dir nicht zu viele Gedanken. Du bist bestimmt ein besserer Freund als du denkst

Dunno whatchoo talking about 'not interesting' o: I did find it informative enough c:

hugs c: if you'd like a hug from a stranger x3
Also wanted to do this meme thingy but yea, low self esteem.

The few times we've interacted you've been a beautiful, humorous, and genuine soul. Reading both your journal and the comments to follow really bolsters the belief that I'll be ok...socially. I don't think you're boring at all either, and love your duality as a flylady. :)

Ich tu mich schwer bei solchen Empathie-Sachen, daher hoff ich mal, dass ich dich nicht in irgend ner Form nerve oder stresse oder unter Druck setze oderso ._. Das würd ich wirklich nicht wollen.