Whelp! looks like everything is back to working normally! turns out it was just a slowly dying graphics card! thanks to a dear friend I got a new card on the double and it works like a charm! so if I didn’t get to thank all of you in the comments I will thank you all here! this is why I love this community! you guys are such a huge help!
panda hugs all
so more work is coming! time to get off my ass! yaay!!