I am not sure where to begin, but I do see that my attempts to talk to you went very wrong. For which I am sorry, while I don't regret the contents of my messages, I do regret the fact that I let my frustration bring out the worst in me regarding my tone, which I regret. I saw a lot of vents and rants in your profile, and was for the most part asking questions in order to better understand what was going on and to try to explain things to you. It seems I misjudged what to do, and what not with your journals. I sometimes resort to bad attempts at humor, such as writing "opiniated contrarian" as a joking reference to my own tendency to be a bit of a nosey know-it-all, or in response to things people write, which to me are funny, but are a sensitive topic to them. I don't think we should try to contact each other again. However, finding your profile here gave me an opportunity to write an explanation and an appology regarding my behaviour towards you because I do feel bad about the poor manner in which we communicated with each other.
Something I felt that needed to be added:
While you are perfectly within your rights to decide not to talk to me for whatever reason I do think it is an act of weakness on your side to ban me without a single word or warning. I feel this way because banning someone without any kind of warning for what you feel is a misstep is unreasonable and not smart. People usually have a good reason for what they do even if you don't agree with their choices and insta-banning anyone without trying to talk things over essentially means you do not want to listen to what anyone has to say unless it is to your personal liking and that it is also up to you to decide who can go to hell in your book. While that is your right, you might want reconsider this, you may end up with a lot of frustrated resentment regarding a lot of people because you neglected to try to understand their perspective. You might think you can move on and forget about people who angered you, and perhaps you are right. It is my opinion that this way dealing with people is the road to becoming a narrow-minded and intolerant, lonely individual. However you don't need to contact me if that is your wish. I won't bother you any more, that is for sure. You can however always contact me if you like, I did not ban you and my e-mail address is there for anyone who wishes to talk to me.
yours,
FoxyCubLover
reposted regarding grammar and spelling - do as you wish with these posts.
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Hi Loupy,
I am not sure where to begin, but I do see that my attempts to talk to you went very wrong. For which I am sorry, while I don't regret the contents of my messages, I do regret the fact that I let my frustration bring out the worst in me regarding my tone, which I regret. I saw a lot of vents and rants in your profile, and was for the most part asking questions in order to better understand what was going on and to try to explain things to you. It seems I misjudged what to do, and what not with your journals. I sometimes resort to bad attempts at humor, such as writing "opiniated contrarian" as a joking reference to my own tendency to be a bit of a nosey know-it-all, or in response to things people write, which to me are funny, but are a sensitive topic to them. I don't think we should try to contact each other again. However, finding your profile here gave me an opportunity to write an explanation and an appology regarding my behaviour towards you because I do feel bad about the poor manner in which we communicated with each other.
Something I felt that needed to be added:
While you are perfectly within your rights to decide not to talk to me for whatever reason I do think it is an act of weakness on your side to ban me without a single word or warning. I feel this way because banning someone without any kind of warning for what you feel is a misstep is unreasonable and not smart. People usually have a good reason for what they do even if you don't agree with their choices and insta-banning anyone without trying to talk things over essentially means you do not want to listen to what anyone has to say unless it is to your personal liking and that it is also up to you to decide who can go to hell in your book. While that is your right, you might want reconsider this, you may end up with a lot of frustrated resentment regarding a lot of people because you neglected to try to understand their perspective. You might think you can move on and forget about people who angered you, and perhaps you are right. It is my opinion that this way dealing with people is the road to becoming a narrow-minded and intolerant, lonely individual. However you don't need to contact me if that is your wish. I won't bother you any more, that is for sure. You can however always contact me if you like, I did not ban you and my e-mail address is there for anyone who wishes to talk to me.
yours,
FoxyCubLover
reposted regarding grammar and spelling - do as you wish with these posts.