Edit: It appears someone who made disgusting comments regarding my decision and body who has been blocked has taken it upon themself to PM various commenters on this journals, my apologies in advance.
http://www.gofundme.com/j3exik
I've decided to go ahead and move forward with a donation campaign.
As it states, it is for a breast reduction surgery and associated costs. This might come as a bit of a surprise to some of my friends on here. It's something I have struggled with for a long time (A decade), and i'm finally at a point in my life where I have the desire to change it. If you can't donate, it's okay! I realize we all have our struggles, and that's not something i'll look down on you for. Spreading the word means just as much to me. I must ask that you keep any comments stating I 'should be happy with what I have' to yourselves. If I was happy with it, I wouldn't be trying to change it. To put it bluntly, it's my body, not yours.
It has my size listed on the page. It's not something I brag about by any stretch of means. I've been using various hiding methods for years, so it's not a surprise it was never obvious, but that really doesn't matter in the end, considering I loathe them.
No, they fucking are NOT. Why do you think i'm hoping and saving for this? Not because I think they're nice. I don't care if people think 'they're nice'. It's my body, not yours. I don't like them, so as soon as I get the means to (whether it's this campaign or saving on my own in a few years) they're getting removed.
This whole time I never knew about them, and now that I do you want them removed.
Its a sad day for me :(
Why does it matter to you? Why does what I want to do with my body matter to you? Why does it matter you never knew about them? The only thing about it that seems to bother you is the fact that how dare I remove my breasts. A sexualized object on -my- body, which is something -i- have to live with everyday. Not you. How dare you.
Dude, are you really that selfish? If they want a breast reduction, then it's their call, and theirs alone to make.
The last thing a person needs to hear in that situation is comments on how "their breasts look nice", because that would only serve to make them feel less secure in their body.
Just....don't do that. Try to be more considerate next time.
Good luck with saving up, this is a big step for you and I wish you good luck and fast recovery on the surgery.
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Sniffeh
I never really noticed your breasts. Are they huge lol?