UHM, put a link up to donate money on my main profile and also a fund number so you can see it!
sorry i kinda just...dropped off earlier i got really nervous and stressed and overstimulated so i had to step away for a bit
i actually cried a lot tho bc already people i was talkin to were incredibly generous and i cant really thank you enough wow ok. with this ill probably be able to get some cosmetic stuff like binders and undies and stuff like that right away, bc i probs wont be able to fit in time to do my name until a few months from now uhhghh but its a start
yall are very kind you kno that. as much as i can be a bit distant and scared i still value you guys v much. im kiss
thank you so much umu and yea, top surgerys fuckin sPENSIVE. idek if im gunna get it bc like, since im transneutral and not transmasculine and i dont necessarily feel like my chest is an issue some of the time. but yea
YEAH, the safest ones i know of are from underworks, theyre decently pricey(around the 30s?) but they are the safest to use
I want top surgery so bad, man. I don't need hormones or any other changes at all, I literally just desperately have always wanted top surgery. I have needed my chest gone since it grew in. I weep. But it costs like $10-15k here. And I'm agender and not interested in transitioning to male or anything so it's like... not even recognized as being important, medically. So it's 100% an out of pocket expense. Augh.
You gotta do what you're comfortable with, but surgery is so expensive that if you don't really NEED it, I totally don't blame anyone who doesn't plan on getting it.
I will totally hit up underworks when I have the cash. My binder suuucks, and I like my lil' training sports bras because they sort of work but like... it's not as flat as I want. It's basically just enough that I can stand to look at myself and be in pictures and that's about it. WHICH IS A GREAT IMPROVEMENT but I would like better.
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I will find this donate link and CONTRIBUTE WHAT I CAN, I know this shit can be so expensive like wow. I have basically given up on ever getting top surgery because what even is money anymore
ALSO, do you know a good company to buy binders from for like... comfortable daily use? I see lots of recommendations but they're all different companies and the one I've got is a horrible ebay binder that threatens to break my ribs so I CANNOT WEAR IT. I've been using very small sports bras instead but I weep. They're comfortable but they really do not get the job done.