My wuffy....

Now before anyone starts jumping onto me about the use of the term, please understand this:
I am not saying it in any attempt to be possessive over the wuff I am currently not with.

The phrase is being used out of love, compassion, care, and respect.

Allow me to explain:

While we had a wonderful 5 years, in which we truly loved each other, problems arose (as mentioned before) that led to us at least needing some time apart.

He was the only one to offer true love to me:
A love based on care and compassion - not sex.

For that reason alone, I do feel that he is the last true love for me, and my last true mate.
I will always hold dear the fondness we had for each other, and do wish things could have been different.

Now we are apart, and while I do wish I may eventually have another chance to prove my love for him, I need to also respect him as an individual.
For really, it would be his choice to make, if he were to make it - and it would honor me deeply if he does consider it in the future.

I will always have love, compassion, care, and respect for him - no matter what.
And I will always be here for him, and always be his starlight.

Also, I will remain loyal to him - if he were to desire that.
I feel the need to be loyal and to be there for him - especially since we do remain very close friends.

That being said:
In my heart, he will always be my wuffy, due to my love and care for him.

That is why I use the term, its not a sign of possession, but a sign of love.
(Think about how your parents will always consider you their "little boy" or "little girl")