I do promise to post a journal of substance eventually. Been busy with work, and Baku Collective stuffs and knitting.
SO. MUCH. KNITTING.
1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
If you can define it as a crush, though it's much deeper.
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
Five years just about.
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
We don't talk and I alternate between missing him and hating his fucking guts.
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
Yes. (and if you're reading this P.R, yes I count you as cheating on me.)
7: Have you ever cheated?
8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
Trust, love (not always romantic, but love all the same.)
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
....Uhm...I have no idea. x.x
13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
Does "I Do" count? No, I don't regret that. I do however regret not standing up for myself, and not getting out of the relationship sooner once I knew it was toxic.
14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
Eeeh....this is difficult. There's really no set age, I suppose, some kids could concievably be ready for sex by sixteen, and some adult at age 50 STILL aren't ready, so...
15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
Between consenting adults, very much so. If love is there, it doesn't matter.
16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
No...interest, yes. Infatuation, yes. But love builds over time with the person, getting to know them.
17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
Yes I do.
18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
Disrespect, abuse, cheating.
19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
When neither party wants to be in it, or when there's abuse.
20: Are you currently in a relationship?
21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
22: Do you think people should date their friends?
I suppose there's something in "friends first"
23: How many relationships have you had?
24: Do you think love can last forever?
I honestly don't know.
25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
I like to think so but I don't know.
26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
You deserve to be treated well.
28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
Yes, if both parties want it to and with an idea that the distance will be closed eventually.
29: What do you notice first about another person?
30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
I guess I qualify as bisexual.
31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
No it wouldn't.
32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
33: Do you want to get married one day?
Having been married once before...yes. To the right person...I would love to get married.
34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
No. Never. Ever.
35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
36: Are you still a virgin?
37: What's more important: Looks or personality?
Personality, that's what you'll be interacting with and if I don't like the person all the good looks in the world can't save the relationship.
38: Do you enjoy love films?
39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
Yes, a couple of times.
40: Have you ever had a valentine?
41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
Eh...something that is fun for both parties and where neither wants to bail on the other.
42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
Generally my partner will be the most important person in my life.
44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?
Multiple. Times. Across. Many. Years. It's to the point I've gotten to assume if I have feelings for someone, they definitely don't return them.
47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
Gomez and Morticia Addams
48: What's your favorite love song?
Fixer Upper from Frozen, because none of us is perfect, but love can help us.
49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
I think maybe.
50: If you're single, why do you think you are?
The honest answer? Because I'm not worth it/not good enough.
51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy/girl?
The nice guy/girl definitely.
52: Are you good at giving other people advice regarding dating/ relationships?
53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
Sometimes...it's more being very painfully aware of the fact I'm single.
54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
Not very important at all.
55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
I guess...my ex used to call me clingy all the time at least.
56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
Silly, no. A broken heart is very painful...and suicide becomes a possibility when our pain has exceeded our ability to deal with it and we just want the pain to end. Is it the answer...no. But silly, no. Not at all.
58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
Submissive. Without the air quotes.
59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
60: What's your opinion on open relationships?
I couldn't handle it...bad associations and a lingering feeling that the relationship is only open because I'm not enough, which then gives rise to feelings of inadequacy and at that point I start tearing myself apart.
61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
If my partner chose/chooses me out of everyone to be with, then I'm the most important person to them and the opposite would be true.
62: How do you define "cheating"?
Any kind of infidelity..emotional, physical, etc.
63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
Yes. Doesn't stop me wanting someone to treat me tho.
65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?