Valentine's Meme because why not. by Witchiebunny

I do promise to post a journal of substance eventually. Been busy with work, and Baku Collective stuffs and knitting.


Meme! Right!

1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
If you can define it as a crush, though it's much deeper.

2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
Definitely yes.

3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
Five years just about.

4: Have you ever changed for someone?

5: How is your relationship with your ex?
We don't talk and I alternate between missing him and hating his fucking guts.

6: Have you ever been cheated on?
Yes. (and if you're reading this P.R, yes I count you as cheating on me.)

7: Have you ever cheated?

8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?

9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
Trust, love (not always romantic, but love all the same.)

10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?

11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?

12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
....Uhm...I have no idea. x.x

13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
Does "I Do" count? No, I don't regret that. I do however regret not standing up for myself, and not getting out of the relationship sooner once I knew it was toxic.

14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
Eeeh....this is difficult. There's really no set age, I suppose, some kids could concievably be ready for sex by sixteen, and some adult at age 50 STILL aren't ready, so...

15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
Between consenting adults, very much so. If love is there, it doesn't matter.

16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
No...interest, yes. Infatuation, yes. But love builds over time with the person, getting to know them.

17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
Yes I do.

18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
Disrespect, abuse, cheating.

19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
When neither party wants to be in it, or when there's abuse.

20: Are you currently in a relationship?

21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?

22: Do you think people should date their friends?
I suppose there's something in "friends first"

23: How many relationships have you had?

24: Do you think love can last forever?
I honestly don't know.

25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
I like to think so but I don't know.

26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?

27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
You deserve to be treated well.

28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
Yes, if both parties want it to and with an idea that the distance will be closed eventually.

29: What do you notice first about another person?
Their smile.

30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
I guess I qualify as bisexual.

31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
No it wouldn't.

32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?

33: Do you want to get married one day?
Having been married once before...yes. To the right person...I would love to get married.

34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
No. Never. Ever.

35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?

36: Are you still a virgin?

37: What's more important: Looks or personality?
Personality, that's what you'll be interacting with and if I don't like the person all the good looks in the world can't save the relationship.

38: Do you enjoy love films?
Not really.

39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
Yes, a couple of times.

40: Have you ever had a valentine?

41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
Eh...something that is fun for both parties and where neither wants to bail on the other.

42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?

43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
Generally my partner will be the most important person in my life.

44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
Oh yes.

45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?

46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?
Multiple. Times. Across. Many. Years. It's to the point I've gotten to assume if I have feelings for someone, they definitely don't return them.

47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
Gomez and Morticia Addams

48: What's your favorite love song?
Fixer Upper from Frozen, because none of us is perfect, but love can help us.

49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
I think maybe.

50: If you're single, why do you think you are?
The honest answer? Because I'm not worth it/not good enough.

51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy/girl?
The nice guy/girl definitely.

52: Are you good at giving other people advice regarding dating/ relationships?

53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?'s more being very painfully aware of the fact I'm single.

54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
Not very important at all.

55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
I ex used to call me clingy all the time at least.

56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?

57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
Silly, no. A broken heart is very painful...and suicide becomes a possibility when our pain has exceeded our ability to deal with it and we just want the pain to end. Is it the But silly, no. Not at all.

58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
Submissive. Without the air quotes.

59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?

60: What's your opinion on open relationships?
I couldn't handle it...bad associations and a lingering feeling that the relationship is only open because I'm not enough, which then gives rise to feelings of inadequacy and at that point I start tearing myself apart.

61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
If my partner chose/chooses me out of everyone to be with, then I'm the most important person to them and the opposite would be true.

62: How do you define "cheating"?
Any kind of infidelity..emotional, physical, etc.

63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?

64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
Yes. Doesn't stop me wanting someone to treat me tho.

65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?

Valentine's Meme because why not.


1 February 2014 at 06:16:40 MST

Journal Information


Tags Modify

There are no tags associated with this journal

Edit Tags