The distinction is between you and me for art vs. personal but I make art about you because you are more fun than I.
Then, what I write about you is now: 'I ate you yesterday. When you came back out you came back out whole. But I made you into my vorish sculpture. You were scaley but you became furry and I will not take you personally because you are my art. You are what I write and I write about you. You are much more interesting than I.'
It isn't to say that I don't put anything personal into anything. But I mean that this is not me. It is a lens and a filter through me and the product is art. I have these personal fetishes but transformations from personal to art is what I intend and I want to have fun doing it and delve a better meaning for you.
So I will write about you and all that you do or would do to help me out. Then I gather everyone together for my artful writing. Then everyone would go home.