I am nonbinary. I am demiboy. My gender is valid, my pronouns are grammatically correct.

THEY/THEM or HE/HIM. NEVER use female pronouns, I AM NOT FEMALE.

My name is Koji, it is not just the name of my sona, I am planning to legally change my name to reflect this. You may also call me Farren or Tremlin/Trem/Tremmy if you like, I like those nicknames so it's all good, but Koji is my name.

I am tired of being misgendered. I am tired of correcting people. I have been going by neutral pronouns on this site since I joined, it has been two years, and I officially came out online as trans masculine a year ago. You have no more excuses. You fuck it up, I cut you out of my life, end of discussion.

Thanks Trans Day of Visibility for giving me an excuse to post this.

Sorry if this sounds a bit snippy, seeing all these gorgeous trans and nonbinary people so happy while I'm trapped in a toxic, abusive household and haven't passed a day in my life has been really fucking difficult to manage. I love you all and I am so happy for you, and I will do whatever I can to protect and help you feel valid, just please understand that this day isn't great for everyone participating.

Also sorry for the general low mood lately, everything has kinda gone to shit in my life and I'm not doing well. I'm hoping maybe at least being called the right thing will help, but I have no idea. Sorry everyone.