Here she is! I've finally stopped being lazy and updated her old reference.
You can find the old one here: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/16238720/
Things Updated
-New Alternate Wing Colors
-Wedding Band
-Outfit
-Gender Identity
-Age (I got older XD )
-Markings
I'm pretty proud of the update! The background is a bit iffy, I didn't want to over-complicate it, but it also looks sort of bland to me.
As for the gender identity update. To put it short, I realized I'm not genderfluid. I was simply insecure about being female because I wasn't very feminine, and that was confusing, did that mean I was genderfluid? No. Just because I'm not always feminine doesn't mean I identify as male. Society's view of women also made me feel ashamed for being female (ex: you throw like a girl/cry like a girl). I'm much happier now knowing I shouldn't let gender stereotypes lead my life, and that being female doesn't make me any less of a person than anyone else.