sorry for this long for nothing...
because my grandma just got some serious health issue
she start with Pulmonary edema and become more complication
she real wasn't look to well
she got in to Emergency room about 11/5...
and trans to the Intensive Care Unit at 11/7

and things just start to going bad...
because my grandma start become more weaker she get more and more problem
Lung and Renal failure plus Acute hepatitis... and more worst... Septicemia...
I real don't know how's become next...
let her get more torment in the ICU or just let her past away...
now she just living with the machines and drugs...
even she is wake she still can't talk anythings because she need the intubate to keep her breathing...

I don't know what is yours...
but in Chinese culture we real hard to choice how when and where to pull off all things to let her go...
this is real hard...