After reading some comments from fellow furs and a few friends and now that I have a grasp what's going on.
I will still use the term herm in the same way i've been using it the entire time which is, Character with a full functioning set of both genitalia. My fursona is a herm and i'm a trans man so.
I felt like saying something since i've seen this blowing up on FA and tumblr as well so.
Yeah, unfortunately it's true you can't please every one. Fantasy-herm might work to. I never thought of that. Also I notice people try to speak for other groups they aren't a part of and its really eye rolling. Mostly on tumblr though bleh.
I never understood why people find the term "herm" offensive, since "hermaphrodite" is a scientific term and "herm" is just a shorter version of that term. I dunno. Like there isn't any other word (at least not any common one that I know of) to describe an organism with both male and female reproductive parts.
I'm going the same way as you, Giga. Though most of my character's genitals never really matter since I hardly use them for pornography.
Because the correct medical terminology that doctors use referring to their patients is intersex. It's just more sensitive an issue because hermaphrodite is used as a fetish keyword.
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Yeah I'm a transguy who wants a character with both sets of bits, too. There isn't really a term that you can use without insulting somebody and that's just the nature of the internet. I think I'm gonna start using fantasy-herm :V