Thanks everyone for watching me, and taking interest in my art! Unfortunately, Friend Requests are as such. x.x For uhm..friends. I'm Sorry D: I can't add someone I know to that list because...well..I don't know you! D: I'm sorry!
I like friend requests from strangers.
Because I like rejecting them and disappointing people. 8)
The only thing missing is a "reason" feature, like "I rejected your friend request because you are not important to me, I don't care about YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!"
You know, just a little touch to make me happy. :3
idk you seem sort of aloof and a little abrasive but maybe that's because of my tendency to annoy the shit out of people and because you have seen and taken way too much shit in your time to take my shit lightly
You have a tendency to shoot off your mouth, and not letting something go when you're asked to do so. Even what you said just now just made me raise an eyebrow, almost like your saying that my personality is too much on the negative side to have any friends at all? =\
well I have no idea what your offline persona is like
Well I guess, to put it in better words- your online persona just exudes some sort of really sharp vibes to me idk i just don't expect you to be the sort to get a lot of RANDOM friend requests from a lot of people
like i'd expect you to get one or two at best from people who decided they could actually manaGE that
For the record, I think your personality is pretty awesome, and considering how much bullshit you have to put up with from asshats, I think you handle such things really well. From what I've seen, you're very professional with commissioners and work hard at what you do, which I really respect. Hedgehodge was right in one regard--it's definitely his tendency to annoy the shit out of other people that's the problem here. I think he needs to learn some social skills, since he's obviously the abrasive one here. :\
Thank you, I appreciate it. I'm just at the point in my life with the furry fandom where no matter what I do to try and change my image on how folks perceive me, people will always view me as this... "ugly, abrasive black woman that picks fights". I try to keep to myself, or try to be more approachable, and it seems to blow up in my fave in some form of fashion.
No problem, I just felt the need to speak up. I know you get a lot of shit thrown your way and it's really not fair. The problem is with the furry fandom, not you. I think what it comes down to is that you are a black woman...who has boundaries and will stand up for herself. To me, that's something to respect. To the sort of entitled fuckfaces that frequent the internet (and, by proxy, the furry fandom)...not so much.
Yeah i am. And I will admit my social skills are not the greatest.
idk I was just surprised people were throwing shittons of friend requests at her because i briefly forgot she was like internet famous
The reason why I cant really take you on a serious note is that you kind of cause disruptions in my stream recently, as with your inability to let n argument go when I've asked you to do so. Also, even though I'm not upset about it anymore, you've openly mocked me about my severe arahnophobia, in front of my friends and customers, in my stream..so you have to understand why I'm a little less patient with you than I am with others. You can get pretty mean.
yeah i will admit i need to get better at dropping arguments when people ask me to
...also I'm pretty sure I recall trying to share with you material to try and actually HELP you with your arachnophobia but you rejected it outright instead of actually looking at it.
...all I can remember is leaving you a link to a thing on your deviantART that you were never really obligated or forced to click anyway but you took offense to me linking it at all?
You left it on my tumblr, and you left it on my stream during the time when I said I wasn't interested, and then you got belligerent about it. But I'm done talking about this with you because I am getting annoyed when I shouldn't be. When it comes down to it, my patience with you is thoroughly finished, and the next step is to start ignoring/blocking you if you continue this further. This discussion is done.
truth is i'd actually like to be friends with you sORTA??? but basically I'm dumb and fuck up most interactions I have with people unless they're like patient with me.
like i just did here right now.
and with the whole thing about your arachnophobia.
okay yeah actually that one was especially egregiously bad of me.
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Well.. At least you aren't getting random, "I love you so much" notes from random people.. Unless you are, then you might already have a bigger problem. :P
Wow alot of unneeded tension here, but anyway Kayla I think you're very nice and I love watching you draw. I haven't been around long but I have heard of you prior to watching you and coming to your streams. People like to just hear crap from others and take that as fact instead of getting to know you. I think people need to shut their mouth and actually take the time to get to know you instead of believing here say from others that have heard wrong info from others if that makes sense?
Regardless keep up the good work and don't let people bother ya, that is the great thing about the internet. If someone is getting on your nerves there is a little X you can click and ignore them. Wish I had that in real life o.<
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Slifer Silverwing
It is okay, if you don't add me as friend.
I also post no art here, because I use this account to watch the artist I like.