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Friend Requests by EbonyChimera

Thanks everyone for watching me, and taking interest in my art! Unfortunately, Friend Requests are as such. x.x For uhm..friends. I'm Sorry D: I can't add someone I know to that list because...well..I don't know you! D: I'm sorry!

Friend Requests

EbonyChimera

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    It is okay, if you don't add me as friend.
    I also post no art here, because I use this account to watch the artist I like.

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    I like friend requests from strangers.

    Because I like rejecting them and disappointing people. 8)

    The only thing missing is a "reason" feature, like "I rejected your friend request because you are not important to me, I don't care about YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!"

    You know, just a little touch to make me happy. :3

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    I find it kind of funny that people actually send you friend requests

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      Why do you find that funny?

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        idk you seem sort of aloof and a little abrasive but maybe that's because of my tendency to annoy the shit out of people and because you have seen and taken way too much shit in your time to take my shit lightly

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          You have a tendency to shoot off your mouth, and not letting something go when you're asked to do so. Even what you said just now just made me raise an eyebrow, almost like your saying that my personality is too much on the negative side to have any friends at all? =\

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            well I have no idea what your offline persona is like

            Well I guess, to put it in better words- your online persona just exudes some sort of really sharp vibes to me idk i just don't expect you to be the sort to get a lot of RANDOM friend requests from a lot of people

            like i'd expect you to get one or two at best from people who decided they could actually manaGE that

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              Wow ok.

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                For the record, I think your personality is pretty awesome, and considering how much bullshit you have to put up with from asshats, I think you handle such things really well. From what I've seen, you're very professional with commissioners and work hard at what you do, which I really respect. Hedgehodge was right in one regard--it's definitely his tendency to annoy the shit out of other people that's the problem here. I think he needs to learn some social skills, since he's obviously the abrasive one here. :\

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                  Thank you, I appreciate it. I'm just at the point in my life with the furry fandom where no matter what I do to try and change my image on how folks perceive me, people will always view me as this... "ugly, abrasive black woman that picks fights". I try to keep to myself, or try to be more approachable, and it seems to blow up in my fave in some form of fashion.

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                    ... I never bought up anything about your being black?

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                    No problem, I just felt the need to speak up. I know you get a lot of shit thrown your way and it's really not fair. The problem is with the furry fandom, not you. I think what it comes down to is that you are a black woman...who has boundaries and will stand up for herself. To me, that's something to respect. To the sort of entitled fuckfaces that frequent the internet (and, by proxy, the furry fandom)...not so much.

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                    Can I just say that in the last month or so that you've been a LOT more approachable? [: Don't let people making back-handed comments get you too ticked off tho.

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              Wow, you're calling HER abrasive? Deflection much?

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                Yeah i am. And I will admit my social skills are not the greatest.

                idk I was just surprised people were throwing shittons of friend requests at her because i briefly forgot she was like internet famous

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                  You basically forgot she's an artist...? No, seriously, there's something wrong with you. And really, if you do have that much of a problem with her, you should just not watch her, instead of demonstrating your infantile lack of empathy and interpersonal skills.

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                    how was I supposed to equate "being an artist" with "everyone sending you friend requests"??

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                      ...you weren't. You said about her being "internet famous". Which is a fucking given when you're an artist who makes a living on online commissions. Duh.

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                        I'm not exactly a person who does art for a living so I guess I shouldn't have commented

                        sorry

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                  I am not internet famous. I am just an ordinary person that lies to draw, nothing more. :/

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                    Wtf I meant "lives" to draw, not lies.

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          The reason why I cant really take you on a serious note is that you kind of cause disruptions in my stream recently, as with your inability to let n argument go when I've asked you to do so. Also, even though I'm not upset about it anymore, you've openly mocked me about my severe arahnophobia, in front of my friends and customers, in my stream..so you have to understand why I'm a little less patient with you than I am with others. You can get pretty mean.

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            yeah i will admit i need to get better at dropping arguments when people ask me to

            ...also I'm pretty sure I recall trying to share with you material to try and actually HELP you with your arachnophobia but you rejected it outright instead of actually looking at it.

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              By mocking, and attempting to force your opinions down my throat. Yeah that's not helping -_-

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                ...all I can remember is leaving you a link to a thing on your deviantART that you were never really obligated or forced to click anyway but you took offense to me linking it at all?

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                  You left it on my tumblr, and you left it on my stream during the time when I said I wasn't interested, and then you got belligerent about it. But I'm done talking about this with you because I am getting annoyed when I shouldn't be. When it comes down to it, my patience with you is thoroughly finished, and the next step is to start ignoring/blocking you if you continue this further. This discussion is done.

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                truth is i'd actually like to be friends with you sORTA??? but basically I'm dumb and fuck up most interactions I have with people unless they're like patient with me.

                like i just did here right now.

                and with the whole thing about your arachnophobia.

                okay yeah actually that one was especially egregiously bad of me.

                sorrY

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                  Not interested in being friends with someone that doesn't respect others' boundaries. Sorry.

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                    yeah that was bad sorry

                    sorry about calling you "abrasive" earlier by the way since we established that's mostly my fault.

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    You can't add someone you know? :P

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    Well.. At least you aren't getting random, "I love you so much" notes from random people.. Unless you are, then you might already have a bigger problem. :P

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      I got something like that on FA, and then the guy asked if I wanted to see his penis.

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        HAH! Got to love THAT lame shit. Oooh.. People.. You crack me up. I love it when (For us who do rp) go to rp on specific chat sites.. and you get that one creeper who wants to know EVERYTHING about your real life self and if you jerked one off or not and yeah..... Just facepalms.

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        Oh! By the way! I love your icon!!! WRAAAAAAAH!

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    You'd think this would be common sense but somehow people still miss it.

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    What truly is the point of a friends list?? It's so weird. Like is there a way to make like friends only journals and such???

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      yep, when you submit something either journal or a submittion, theres an option so only people on your friends list will see it

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      You can post stuff that only your friends can see.

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        Ah, ok now I see it's uses. Thanks! Weasly is still kinda foreign to me.

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    Though I'm not as popular, I've had a couple random people send me friend requests. I just feels kinda creepy? Its almost like those anon posts on Tumblr where someone sends an ask saying 'hey I really like you and your art can we be friends??'

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    It's okay, nobody knows me! :D

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    You may not know me, but I know you. Dun dun dunnnnnn. O_O

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      That icon supports that comment lol

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    Wow alot of unneeded tension here, but anyway Kayla I think you're very nice and I love watching you draw. I haven't been around long but I have heard of you prior to watching you and coming to your streams. People like to just hear crap from others and take that as fact instead of getting to know you. I think people need to shut their mouth and actually take the time to get to know you instead of believing here say from others that have heard wrong info from others if that makes sense?

    Regardless keep up the good work and don't let people bother ya, that is the great thing about the internet. If someone is getting on your nerves there is a little X you can click and ignore them. Wish I had that in real life o.<

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    I add people that I know, not people who just followed me. Same applies to my Facebook page.