...is the saying I hear from someone who first got into the furry fandom.
I was like that when I first started this fandom.
As time went past, I take it pretty normal whenever I chat online or going at a convention.
The lesson is to learn time and patience.
It does take a long time to get to know someone online or socially.
I know it's hard because no one talks to you the first time you meet them, but it does take a lot of time.
If there is a person who likes to talk with you, Talk to them.
It could be someone you know in the fandom or the unexpected.
I notice that with people with so many views with their fans, it's really stressful to talk with all of them.
If they say something that might sound wrong or they never talk to you, don't let that get to you.
Never say you hate them. Hate is a really wrong word.
Be nice to everyone and respect for the ones that care for you dearly.

Another lesson is with all of the people who adore with other people that has so many views here.
A long time ago I chat up with a person who I'm a huge fan of and told him how much I like his work and all.
Than he told me something that is completely true, "I'm just a regular guy."
The lesson is that we are all equals living in this wonderful fandom in our lives.
We're not Celebrities or anything famous.

Finally, a lot of people say that they are lonely cause they can't draw.
That's not true.
I think personality is what matters the most.
Drawing, fursuiting and etc. are all a type of gift that each of us have.
If you have a type of personality that is stuck in your shell, let it out. Be happy the way you are.

Well, that's all of the things I like to get it out of my chest.
It would much appreciated to spread this around!
Much love to you all!! hugs