The whole issue with a certain user joining the team of FA's coders had a lot of users saying 'It's not our business, it's a he-said she-said issue and there's no solid proof anyway.' I then find these same users complaining about /another/ user who is, in simple terms, being a dick, but supposedly borderline manipulative. They post their username, scream this just HAS to be shared to 'warn others', etc., saying they're in the right to do this because of what he's done.
But of course, if it happens to /you/ then it's alright to act this way, because it's /yourself/ at stake here, not some stranger. It quite irks me that people think this 'as long as it deals with me I say what can be done and what is right' vs a 'if this is wrong, it's wrong regardless of who it happens to'. I'm not fond of people who don't stick to their guns so to speak.
Seriously, people just amaze me sometimes.