In my experience it's better to have some distance to this community. That way you become more of an individual and can think for yourself! Don't become a sheep. And if you still feel like you want to belong, try visit a few local furmeets, contact other Norwegian furs or most importantly go to NFC if you got the chance! I heard everyone enjoyed that convention and the spirit there was just over the top. There you would probably feel like you belong plus a little more!