Responsibility requires sacrifice, every day sacrifice. That sacrifice is freedom, freedom of personal want. You can never think of self, only of others. This is something you are born with. It is never you, it is us, it is all. All those who depend on you for warm, shelter, civil and basic rights, to teach, to learn, to feed and be fed, whose very lives depend on you. -Or will someday. Do you care for your people or do you abandon? Let them die or let them live.
Their lives are on your heart. Your word is absolute, always take it seriously. (Unless in jest)

The freedom of suicide, the freedom of personal space, of privacy. To go a day without being judged - this is a luxury. A luxury you cannot afford, nor should want.

I must be happy and comfortable, for my people want it.

Do not speak ill of others for it will come back to haunt you.
Do not wish happenings (on others) for the same shall happen to you.
Only wish good will and no harm will come to you.
Do not pass judgement for you will be judged the same.
Do unto others as you'd have them do unto you, always.
Do not seek retrbution nor revenge, it will come back to bite you.
Never forget.