NOTE: Random foxcat thing is random. Any similarities to one of the myriad number of furry hybrids is strictly by accident cut me a break geez. >:\

Should I start labeling these beside with numbers? Might help to find specific ones...

Anyway, I wish I could say this was a rare event but its really not for me. Most everyone new I meet nowadays and talk to for any length of time with seems to have a response similar to this. I've been asked for my cell number by people I've known for about a week, been asked to be people's boyfriends more times than I care to admit, and I always feel bad telling them no to a lot of other things I don't even want to admit being asked, lol.

I suppose you could say a lot of it is my fault. "You're too friendly with people! Don't listen to their problems so much. Don't try to help them, they get too attached to you!"

...Yeeeeeaaaah, that's not who I am though. It goes against everything I am to see someone with a problem/need, and not doing what I can to help out. If I actually can't do anything, that's different, but I want to try at least. Is general kindness so rare nowadays that simply giving someone a shoulder to lean on when they need it means "Oh hey, they must be attracted to me they're being so nice! :D"? Yeah, I dunno.

Anyway, I can just see people being offended by this in some way, but its not meant to be at all. I just find it ridiculous how this seems to happen with a regular consistency, lol.