So i've been doing a lot of thinking lately. There's been some big changes in my life - i moved to California with ixor, and my gender has been doing some interesting things, especially since i got here. i'm finding more and more that i identify as transmasculine, though not as a trans man. i'm still agender, but maybe.. call it masculine agender. Some days i'm full boy, i wear a cock and prefer masculine pronouns. But i'm also finding that i prefer 'it' pronouns.
So, from now on, please refer to me as an 'it'. If you have problems with that - i know some people have issues with it and find it difficult - feel free to keep calling me xe, they, or even he. But my preferred pronoun is 'it'.
i still identify as agender, obviously, just a different flavor, maybe, than in the past. i'm growing as a person and becoming more comfortable with myself, healthier, and better. Right now, this fits better.
i'm also starting to save up for top surgery this year. i know having a flat chest will be miles and away more comfortable for me, so i'm hoping i can work towards that as quickly as possible.
Feel free to ask questions in the comments, about my gender, about transgender in general, anything related to that. Don't worry about being too invasive - just this once, yall have carte blanche to ask anything you want about gender. Outright insulting comments, however, will be hidden.
Oh, and Happy New Year!
Farore, artwork © kWilson 2014