Being in a relationship is a task in itself. However, when one of the partners has severe anxieties and emotional instabilities; It's difficulty is thrice-fold. The downs are more dramatic and even painful, over the smallest things- What someone said, a tone, a text, a sigh. These "episodes" can last anywhere for hours, to months, and even years. The smallest thing could set off an arsenal of triggers, often resulting in a spiral and emotional fallout. Victims don't want to be victimized, however it's sometimes the only thing they know, and have so much trouble moving on. When they do find the one person who will keep them standing when they don't want to- Letting go seems very much less scary.