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Don't read if you don't like personal things. by SwirlySpotBean

So it's 6 am, I can't fall back asleep so I'll just talk about how nice it is here. As many of you know, I moved to Rhode Island yesterday. I moved because of fear of losing my home at my old place in SC due to my mother being admitted to a mental hospital [she has been there since the 16th of Sept.] and It was pretty bad at my old environment. My mother was falsified to a judge to be dangerous because of some mean people [including my dysfunctional uncle, his gf, and some bad neighbors.] The neighbor reportedly said that my mother threaten her and her dog. You see my neighbor got into it with my mom 3-4 months ago, I was there. There was no death threats and I can reassure you my mother has never been dangerous to anyone. After that the neighbor has been harassing my mother every since; I told my mother to keep to herself. It had gotten to the point where this woman would follow her and bully her in public. We've had the police out multiple times, they did nothing. Only thing they would say is stay away from each other and stay on properties. We did, but they kept harassing us. She then had other neighbors bully us. They stole my mother's dog cage and kept verbally harassing us just in general. Then when my uncle [45 years old] moved around May-June, things just got worse. He's wanted because he broke parole (He was in NC but came to SC) He wanted to stay with us, this isn't the first time. He's been kicked out off and on every since 2006. He doesn't learn and he's violent. So many things I could say about him but it's far too much for me to say and handle. He's hurt me and my family too much, we don't even call him family no more till this day. Surely my mother falls for this because she thinks he'll change; He doesn't since he takes advantage of people, hurt them, and manipulate others. So yeah, he was staying there, and right before you know it, he was back to his game. He wouldn't help my mother, bummed off of her, eat up the food, whined if he had to do anything around that house then it got to threats and arguments off and on for months until a couple of days before Sept 16th. One day my mother got tired of my uncle using her government phone (Note: She is disabled and currently has that phone for proper use, like getting her doctor's appointments.) He was using that phone for the sole purpose of texting his gf, all the time to the point where he claimed it as his. My mother was upset by this and had the phone reported stolen since he would never give it back; She told him weeks prior that she would. When the phone finally got shut off, he flipped. Went so called emo and took a knife and started cutting himself in the drive way. My mom flipped on him because when he did that, he went whining to his gf about this. She believed him. She does not know of our family's history with him. She will never know because she is blinded by my uncles' words. She'll never know what we all had to go through because of him. The abuse is too much of the sheer amount. It still hurts us to remember it still. So back to the point. The gf actually told my mom that she's hateful because of that. Btw this gf is crazy as well so it fits perfectly for my uncle; My uncle is only using her for her money and the sex soooo, she doesn't realize that. She thinks she sees a good man but nope he's not. After all this huge ordeal my mother said he had to get out by the 1st of Oct. He was then avoiding the house, and him and the gf was at the bad neighbors' house. I'm pretty much sure that they were angry because my mother forbid his gf to come to her place. Haha they couldn't have sex there.

Everything was cool after he left the house but one day a officer came over saying that they need to evaluate my mom . That freaked me out but surprisingly she calmly went with the officer, while the officer said if she was clear that she would be home at night time. She never came back. It freaked me out so bad. I was a nervous and worrywart of a fit. I was calling hospitals left and right; She wasn't at any of them. My mother called and said she's being transferred to a mental place a couple of counties down. She was crying. I told her it will be alright. She does have mental issues prior before she went in but she was going to mental health to take care of it, no violent illness to let you know!

So since my uncle was wanted I called his Parole officer to let him know about my uncle's whereabouts. They still are looking for him. I know he's hiding in that neighbor somewhere, someone is hiding him and I hope he gets caught soon. That bastard will pay, everyone will but karma will handle it. We aren't low enough to be like them, we just turn out cheeks and leave it at that. I needed to get out of there. My sister got tired of us suffering and as if I wanted to live with her, and you know I took that offer. I'm glad I did because now I'm at peace and don't have to worry about this. I feel bad for leaving my mom behind but she said she'll be moving soon as well. Thank goodness so. She has to move because they will be losing that house because of all of this. I hope the best for her. Today she is getting out. I'll be happy to talk to her again, but everything will work out in time.

I want to thank those who helped me move, by donating and sharing this with people. I'm not usually that type of person to talk about my feelings and life problems in public but when I first typed that one post, I didn't know who to turn to. I'm thankful for having friends and people who are so nice and kind and I want to thank yall. <3

Don't read if you don't like personal things.

SwirlySpotBean

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