No no i actually love long posts, it shows thought, emotion and experience. I welcome good discussion! And I'll admit that alot of the woes could have been avoided had I been a more obscure name in the fandom. (I apparently grossly misjudged my popularity both negative and positive) allthough i still dont consider myself popular by any streach, I had people who would read something id posted, immediately assume it was about them or about certain people and then go tell those people id said something, and my words were further twisted to be something they weren't It's very very hard to DISPROVE intent once someone says "no they meant THIS" the moment people assume that your intent was X and someone beleives them its very hard to prove otherwise because all it really takes is a person's influence to say "yes this is what this person beleives, because i say so and heres the 'evidence'" when really all of it is implied but to thier circle of friends and the people that choose to beleive them, its very hard to sway that erranous opinion BACK toward its original intent which was not NEARLY as malicious as people have made it out to be.