People on this site basically just confirmed for me that humans are scum. Thanks, guys. Good to know.
Here's a fucking tip: if someone says "that word is a really hurtful slur that has done me harm," don't go "no it isn't," because that makes you a gigantic shitlord.
I'm fucking livid. I hope you all choke.
Yeah, I mean... that's one of the major reasons I LEFT FA, so I guess it's just a stark reminder that these kind of people are everywhere. I really feel for the poster of the original journal (I'm like 99% sure you know the one I mean) getting this kind of shit.
I still really love this site, and I won't be going back to FA anytime soon... there's been more people calling out the bullshit here than there would be there, I've a feeling... and some of the comments are left by otherwise inactive accounts, which tends to suggest they're not even really members of the weasyl userbase. But still. It's just left me with a gross, angry feeling.
yeah, yeah my feelings exactly too. its a shitty and cruel reminder that in these times its still p much impossible to escape that kind of shitty thinking from others and it just makes me so sad and livid at the same time hmm
tbh i think the one silverlining i can pick out from this is that admittedly, i AM seeing more people calling out this kind of terrible thinking and behavior, more people than i saw doing so over on fa. the comments left by those sorta inactive accounts just give me a feeling that these are people who are stodgy and stuck in their ways, but wanted to see their favorite artists' art on other websites only to be disappointed that these artists are actually decent people who dont stand for shit, which leaves these assholes with a need to be selfish little passive aggressive shitheads about it
I have noticed more and more people not standing for such shit, but admittedly, it's a little bittersweet for me... as I live in an area that is not properly represented in many online communities. It's much further behind, in terms of MOGAI acceptance... as well as basically every other marginalized group. I'm in the deep south in the US. So when I leave the house after getting used to people online not being these awful bigots, it's system shock.
I just don't understand what's so hard about understanding that your experience is not the only one. There are billions of people on this planet, and to think that you know better than someone else what their own experience is and everyone different than you is just being whiny and not really oppressed is... so self-centered and short-sighted.
I guess, in the end, it's comforting to know that things are changing, but I wish things had changed sooner.
aaaah shit dude, same here. i live in an area where this sort of stuff is incredibly underground so all i can really get is online, but then even online there is so much selfishness
honestly all i can hope for and try and help for is at least some good changes while im still around and kicking. help set things up to keep getting better
yeah, what r-wolfe said; it's just one of those things that gets the terrible people all up in a huff and throwing their shit out there
i'm glad that at least the staff is handling certain things in regards to this well enough; it provides some hope that scummy opinions have less room for validition/support on this site
The recent events have really brought out all the racists out of the closet. We can also thank the media for playing its part. I've been in a lot of distress and have had several panic attacks since all this shit has been going on. I don't know what to do. I'm paranoid. What do people really think about me behind my back? What about my family and friends? What are the cops going to do next time they stop me at a routine traffic stop? Life has to go on. I can't just hide in my apartment forever, but I must confess I've never been so worried for my well being and the color of my skin...
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all this bullshit is really calling people outta the woodworks tbh
like i expect these kinds of people definitely back on furaffinity but this site really shows em bc its still relatively small and cozy(a double edged sword bc ive personally realy enjoyed the friendly atmosphere and intimacies ive been able to cultivate on this site w my viewers but at the same time that closeness just makes the scum even more obvious)