Crazy

That's bizarre.

Weiiird. I had never heard about this happening.

Whoa what

Make sure to post this on their forums, tweet it and mention them, post it to their FB etc. etc. Shit like this is SO NOT OKAY. Like insanely not okay. It's nice knowing that some random person can just get access to any account like this. Whoever did this needs to be removed from the admin team.

We're trying to track down how exactly that happened! Apologies for the mix-up there. Staff is actively looking at it now.

Sounds like they misunderstood you. Probably thought you were your husband just under a new account. Just send a detailed message to the staff. They should sort it out and change your name back.

wtf???
looks like it's all sorted out now. but wow.

Okay! So we got it sorted out with kihari as to what happened!

TLDR Version:
Apollopennae e-mailed in to reset his forgotten username.
22mg had Apollopennae's e-mail set, so her account got renamed instead.
22mg then updated the e-mail field to her own so we lost the association.
No passwords or e-mails were changed or given out by staff, and no userIDs were changed.

Long Version:
It looks like your husband sent in an e-mail stating he had forgotten his account, but to change its username to Apollopennae. The e-mail he sent from was actually linked to your account (22mg), so without any other indications of anything amiss, Kihari thought that this was the account to be recovered/renamed and mistakenly changed the username.

It looks like you then updated the e-mail address associated with your account, so it was no longer on Apollo's, which was good but it initially confused me on how Kihari had connected his e-mail with your account. Once we had made the connection, the rest made sense.

Of note, everything security-wise on Weasyl is handled by UserID, not Username. This has the benefit that we can change usernames easily, and any security, such as ignores an suspensions, can not be bypassed by changing your username. I suspect you were still logged in from earlier, which is how you ended up logged in but with a changed username.

Staff can also NOT change a user's e-mail address or password. This is intentional, to protect users from the potential of staff abuse. I would like to think our staff here generally acts in a professional and helpful manor, but security is important, and people do make mistakes.

There has been some discussion on how we can improve the security of username changes, so more on that later, but right now it looks like everything is fixed. The only remaining question is where Apollopennae's account is. We've been unable to locate any registration from him!