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Those Graduating by insanejoker

"I feel like students never believe me when I talk about this but life post-graduation is rarely as exciting as they think it will be and it's generally tougher than anything experienced as a student. All buffers are gone and you might freefall for a bit. The students who tell me they'll work harder after they graduate are delusional. Self-motivation is key and that's why I try to give my seniors the space they need to figure somethings out for themselves - setting personal goals, making mistakes, excelling or not - as you know. One of the biggest mistakes students make is coasting through school and thinking their degree will get them that dream job. It won't. Their skill sets, including social skills, and ambition will get them there. School is a training ground; it is not a means to an end."

Quote from a past teacher of mine - he was the wisest, most down to earth teacher I ever had. I just wish I took more classes with him.

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    That's so true. I love that quote. It's unbelievably true.

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      It is, and it hurts to share this with recent grads who are so full of life and energy - You don't want to take that away from them, but you want to let them know it's a reality, as well.

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    It's true, but it doesn't absolve the university system for making kids believe otherwise, for their own gains.

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      That is very true. It can be very difficult warning kids that some universities aren't always there to help them, but to use them.

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    Watch out for the predators out there in college. Oh man, watch out for the bastards. A world rife and ready to blast the naivete out of you at a high cost.

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      The really offbeat folks are particularly at risk I think. If you get a ping in your intuition that someone is not right, some bad ping in the intuition -- get away. Do not pity them, do not feel like, "well he's one of us, she's one of my weird kind, they're just unfortunate and a bit awkward..." If the ping happens that someone is bad news /listen to it./

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        And most of all, don't feel like it's your duty to help anyone that makes you feel uncomfortable.

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          it ends in more suffering for all involved

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            So so so true. I usually listen to my instincts, so I don't recall running into issues with those people. I'd be cordial to them in class of course, but outside of that I did not go out of my way to further conversation or interaction. I have, on the other hand, seen some disasters to those who did not trust their instincts. Headaches all around.