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Just some thoughts... by Devin
I'm just gonna dive right in...
So there's this guy I've been chatting with off and on for about a year or so now. He keeps suggesting that we meet in person. I'm all for this. We seem to have a lot in common and when he saw a picture if me he didn't run away screaming. That's always a plus, right?
Now here is the kicker. Every time he suggest we meet in person, I come up with dates, time and a place. And then he suddenly comes up with excuses.
Ok what?! You want to meet me in person but then you make up all these excuses why you can't?
Hmm... I just don't know... At first this was emotionally frustrating. Now, the more he suggest it, the more empty and alone I feel.
I don't know what to do. Except stop taking him seriously all together.
What would you do?
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hugs. Yeah, I think most of it is good intentions. But you are absolutely right, if he's not willing to give 100% to match my 100% then with all the good intentions in the world, it'll never work.
That was pretty much the same conclusion I came up with. Just needed to hear it from someone else, y'know?
Thanks! ^^/
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no prob. just don't forget if you need the ear any, friends are there to help ya--and i'm always a good ear at the least!--as best we can when our friends need it. :)
have been there myself, so i just hope my words can help ya some, maybe not a lot but some at the least. ^^ hope for the best regardless of what happens though! Fingers crossed it goes well :)
keep me posted bud.
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i'd say see if he can plan a date/time for once...if he fails to stick to it or says something when you go to buy tickets/etc. to go see him....that's raeson to probably back away from it. that's just me thinking though. have had a similar experience, and sadly i can attest to both sides of it, but....i'd say if he backs out of trying to plan it himself, just verify that he is serious about it, and i mean actually feel the words out when he replies on it. you get a choked response, you know they're just fucking with ya, and have been for a while. whether they're tied to someone else and can't decide, or they can't just say "yay/nay" or whatever, they're not fully invested. and if they aren't willing or able to put their own 100% into the relationship....it won't workout. believe me on that from experiences. (agian, been on both sides, so i can relate. and i'm just giving input based on what i feel would be in your best interest as outside input as well.)
hope the input proves helpful, even if not most "desired" response my friend. firm hug always here should you wish for an ear though.