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For Dragoneer and Others... by Visky

Crossposting from FA just in case

Possible triggers warning for survivors

Coercing someone into a yes is still against their will whether they press legal charges or no.

http://www.clarku.edu/offices/dos/survivorguide/definition.cfm

"Rape and/or sexual assault is forced, manipulated, or coerced sexual contact by a stranger, friend or acquaintance. It is an act of aggression and power combined with some form of sex. A person is forced into sexual contact through verbal coercion, threats, physical restraint, and/or physical violence. Consent is not given. "

"Coercion
Coercion is the use of emotional manipulation to persuade someone to something they may not want to do – like being sexual or performing certain sexual acts. Examples of some coercive statements include: “If you love me you would have sex with me .”, “If you don't have sex with me I will find someone who will.”, and “I'm not sure I can be with someone who doesn't want to have sex with me.” Coercive statements are often part of many campus acquaintance rapes. Being coerced into having sex or performing sexual acts is not consenting to having sex and is considered rape/sexual assault. "

The more you know rainbow

ED - http://goo.gl/DRBCy2 For those that still have their heads in the sand about the whole thing.

For Dragoneer and Others...

Visky

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    Thumbs up about this :)

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      Thanks. Far too many people seem to think that if you get a yes, no matter the method, that it can be a million nos and a yes and the yes is the only thing that counts. It's also one of the HARDEST crimes to report for survivors...and one of the hardest to prove since it tends to be a one on one thing and thus one person's word against another.

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        I'm not that deep involved with the situations and only read many and many journals, (supposed) proof-postings from both sides, etc. to be able to vaguely review the case as an outsider. Even if all of it isn't true, a simple person who hasn't knowledge of the case could foresee the possible hailstorm that would ensue by insistuating him to that position he has now because of the reputation he has throughout the fandom. Bad decision on 'neers side as usual but I'm not really surprised anymore at this point, or better, since a few years already.

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    What's that girl? Neer made a mistake, delete f*cking everything to cover it up as usual? Jeepers, that's unexpected!
    And Timmy's down a well??
    Well, never really liked that kid anyway so meh.~