For those of you who may read this, I have a problem both on furry sites, and on Furrymuck, where I change my characters a lot, and I seem to have a HUGE problem refraining from doing so. My current character Baron, is supposed to be what a tiger of his species would consider to be normal height, at 9 feet tall. But my problem is, whenever I get around other furs, for instance on Furrymuck, I tend to change my character to make others happy, even though nobody says a word about how I look, because I'm afraid others WILL say something, like telling me Baron's too big and needs to be a more normal size, or something like that.

My question to anyone who reads this is, how do I keep myself happy, while simultaneously keeping myself from wanting to please others? Can any of you give me some advice?