Hello there my Geeklings

Heather here and I am BACK!

That is right my week long (or so i think it was a week lol) Hiatus is done and I am going to get back to my streaming, drawing, jewelry, and let's plays

I am so sorry it took me so long but I had a funeral for a friend to go though watch was sad he and his wife was the one who introduced me to Jason and he was a sweetheart he will be missed so much.
As for my sinus infection i had I am feeling 110% better I want to the doctors and she gave me some medicine to take and said I had to drink more water (at least 4 bottles of water) cause I was dehydrated so I need to drink more water heh dummy me

so I am starting to drink more water then pop.
I want to thank everyone of you for your kind words before i left on my last journal thank you so much for that it made me feel so loved and i am sure my friend would love to hear all the kinds words from you all

Thank you all again

I will be having a stream this week maybe tomorrow not sure yet but I may i need to get back into drawing and jewelry again
So maybe be on the look out for the announcements
now on to something that I have been seeing on all sites including this one

I have a question for all of you
Why are you all so sensitive to a opinion or critique?
you do know that not everyone is going to like your drawings, pairings, or whatever so why must some of you act like a child?
I am sorry but its getting really tiring coming onto a ART SITE and seeing drama everywhere you go
"oh this person does not like my pairing so i am just going to bash then and send others after them instead of acting like my age and talk to them like a adult"
I understand that all your characters are you babies but how you go about treating others on ART SITES is not the right way. Why can't you just say thank you for the suggestion
Instead of saying oh your a hater, a pseudo-critics or a pseudo-fans (whatever they are)
We are humans we are people too who have feeling too just like the rest of you and you think calling others names and saying are just nothing is wrong
People will always have opinions and critique on art its just what a artist does and if you can't take a simple critique or opinion well maybe you don't need to be posting up art on a ART SITE
Cause as a ARTIST we all will not agree we will not like a picture or a pairing but its the person who draws it that needs to understand that they need to deal with it in a mature way and net get so pissy at others opinion
If someone says " you need a little work on your anatomy" you should not just block them like a coward or a child you should address them like a TRUE ARTIST.
I have been spitted on and tossed in the dirt like trash by artist but you know what I dust myself off and get right back into MY ART and JEWELRY
I don't really like Drama I had three friends that I use to look up too but they back stabbed me and used my kindness
one ex-friend even went as far and said that she was sick of me using my dead mother in a few conversations...........
................
I don't care what you say about me
But when you bring up someone I looked up too and loved with all my heart you crossed that line and i will not allow that kind of talk from ANYONE
CAUSE IT HURTS! HOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF YOUR PARENTS DIED AND YOU WHERE THERE SEEING HER TAKE HER LAST BREATH SEEING HER IN A BOX GETTING READY FOR CREMATION THAT IS GOING TO HAUNT YOU FOR THE REST OF YOUR FUCKING LIFE...WELL LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING THAT WAS ME.....so go ahead talk shit about me makes you look like a coward and a child who does not want to grow and learn....but know if you take bad about me family or friends and i will not hesitate to tell everyone who you are.
here is a little saying i find for anyone who has ever had toxic friends

http://sta.sh/0w6sv4djeeg

Please don't ask me who these are I will not tell you I just want to tell you that if you are in a toxic friendship get out it its not fair to you.
any who all i want to see is others trying to take the time to understand one another and remember that your character can be your baby
but just treat other on how you want to be treated
Respect is earn not given okay
Thank you all my geeklings for listening to me vent
but this needed to be said
I hope you all can understand that this is just my opinion on how a art site should be run
this is not a drama site its a art site where we post our wonderful art and show it off to get better from other artists
and to respect others opinion on our pieces
:) i guess i am just a old fashion kind of gal lol
who thinks that you should treat other with the respect you were raised with
lol
anywho
I am out of here I love you my geeklings

Love
GGH