A bit old by now, but I've been wanting to do one for a while. Here's how I feel about being touched by different people. If there was a fifth one for 'partners' it would be solid red except for green at the throat, feet, and under the nose. The 'Chosen Family' touch areas are based more off of 'how much I enjoy this' rather than 'what I will allow', most of the yellow/orange areas are 'that is ticklish' or 'I am suspicious about your reasons for touching there'. The throat is a hard no for everyone, and feet are a pretty solid 'Uncomfy' even for partners and may result in you getting kicked (I'm intensely ticklish on my feet). Strangers, Acquaintances, and Friends are more what I will allow/can handle. As you can see I have a pretty sudden change of heart in regards to being touched once I know someone well.

Of note, this is intended to be 'with my binder on'. Without it, the chest falls pretty firmly under 'I am suspicious about your reasons for touching here' and therefore 'DON'T' or 'Uncomfy' except for close friends/family. If you've shown me that you, personally, can see and touch my chest in a desexualized way (and that's showing me in a way that I believe it, not just telling me so), I'll be much happier with it. If you're awkward or, god forbid, horny about it, that's a one-way ticket to nope-town re: touching me between my belly and shoulders.

If you've done one of these, show me! I'm especially interested in seeing ones other trans/NB/etc folks have done.

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